How to Sleep with a Girl: 10 Secrets to Seal the Deal (and Have Sex Tonight)

If you’re wondering how to sleep with a girl you’re attracted to, you’ve come to the right place.

Many guys out there struggle when they try to get a girl into bed.

They struggle to have sex with girls they’re really attracted to.

In fact, getting a girl to sleep with you is not very complicated.

Whether she’s hot or ugly, the same principles apply.

The difference is that the hottie will be less likely to forgive weakness in your game.

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In this article, you’re going to discover 4 powerful secrets to seal the deal with a woman.

Once you have incorporated these key points into your game, you’ll have a much easier time sleeping with the girls you like.

You can use these tips to sleep with a girl you just met (to sleep with a girl on the first date, to sleep with a girl on the first night…) or to sleep with a girl that you’ve known for a while.

But I must warn you: reading these key points is not enough (it would be too easy).

You must put them into practice, observe, and assess.

With time and experience, they’ll become natural for you.

And when this happens, you’ll be much more capable of easily bedding those girls you find attractive.

So if you have a girl in sight (or several girls in sight), but you ignore where to start to make something happen with her (or them)…

Not so long ago, I had the same struggles.

My game wasn’t very solid.

What you need to understand is that…

Women are naturally more selective than men when it comes to having sexual intercourse.

It’s conscious and unconscious at the same time.

By sleeping with a guy, they run the risk of getting pregnant.

Despite the fact that contraceptive methods are now available to everyone, they still have that risk in mind.

That’s why most women don’t sleep with any stranger they come across.

They don’t want to have a child with whoever.

Unconsciously, they want to select the best mate to have those children with.

Women are hypergamous.

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Men, on the other hand, are different.

Us men can sleep with a girl and not suffer the consequences of unprotected sex (at least physically).

We’re biologically programmed to fuck any fuckable girl.

Women are biologically programmed to select a powerful and dominant male in order to bear healthy children and be protected.

You don’t attract a girl by your physical beauty.

Girls don’t give a shit about it (even if some people claim the opposite).

To attract a girl and sleep with her, you must follow some principles that really matter.

And that’s precisely what we going to see here.

Let’s start with the first key point:

1. To sleep with a girl, do not put her on a pedestal:

It may seem obvious, but it’s worth repeating.

To have sex with a girl (or to make her fall in love with you), you must not worship her.

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You must not put her on a pedestal.

For several reasons:

Firstly, if you idolize her as if she is some kind of a goddess, you’re going to put yourself under pressure.

You’re going to panic.

And the girl is going to feel it.

Which brings me to the second reason…

Why would she be attracted to a guy who considers himself inferior to her?

You only see this in cartoons and movies (and still…)

By putting her on a pedestal, as if she was some kind of a higher being, you trigger disdain…

Read: How Do You Seduce A Woman?

She’s going to treat you as a low-value guy.

And women don’t have sex with low-value guys.

A woman won’t sleep with a guy she sees as lower value than her.

2. Don’t be needy:

Women sleep with men who don’t need them.

Not with men who beg to sleep with them.

Not with men who drop to their knees and fall over themselves to do things for them.

When you’re needy (in other words, when you desperately try to sleep with the girl in question), you’re repulsive.

Women want to sleep with men capable of bringing them value (emotional value, social value…)

3. Build attraction:

There’s a lot of confusion about attraction.

Attraction is often confused with pleasing.

But those two concepts are fundamentally different.

Pleasing is like getting a girl to like you:

We like someone when we don’t feel negative emotions about them and we appreciate in some way his/her behavior, appearance, tastes…

But is that enough to make us want to sleep with them?

Is that even necessary to make us want to sleep with them?


Or maybe not.

Now, what about attraction?

A person attracts you when you are attracted to this person in an uncontrolled manner.

Is that enough to want to sleep with this person?


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In order to sleep with a woman, you must seek to attract her.

Not to please her.

Not to get her to like you.

But to ATTRACT her.

When you try at all cost to get a girl to LIKE you and the girl sees it, you kill the attraction. You end up being pushed into the friendzone (at best).

Which brings us to the next point…

4. Relax:


Slow down.

Speak slowly.

Move slow.

You’ll look more alpha and it’ll put the girl more at ease.

She’ll adopt the same relaxed state.

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